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Take your time, let the chemistry come
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Outings to meet in a different way
Find the ones who share your passions
One first message can change everything
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Men looking for more than a passing profile: a friendship, a relationship, or simply the feeling of being seen.

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Far more than a gay dating site

A real gay social network

Afelios isn't just a dating site for men. It's a gay social network where you post, comment and talk every day, without having to justify yourself. You come for a date, you stay for the life of the community.

Friendship, love, communities

Everyone arrives with his own wishes: living a love story, meeting friends nearby, or simply talking with men who understand him. Communities bring together those who share a city, a passion or a moment in life… with the freedom to move from one to another.

A safe and private space

Profiles are moderated and fake accounts removed. You always keep control over what you share and who can interact with you. Find Afelios on the web and on the iOS and Android apps, with one single account.

Frequently asked questions about Afelios

What is Afelios and who is it for?
Afelios is a dating site for men and a gay social network for adults. It welcomes gay, bi and queer men, and everyone who loves men. You can meet people, chat freely, join communities and discover outings near you.
Is Afelios free?
Yes. Signing up is free and gives you access to the main features: browsing profiles, chatting, communities and meeting people. Optional subscriptions add visibility and comfort, without being necessary to meet someone.
How can I meet men near me?
Once you have signed up, Afelios shows you profiles close to your location. You can also use the location search, discover the outings in your area and find the LGBTQ+ organisations active around you.
Can I use Afelios just to make friends?
Of course. Afelios welcomes every kind of connection: love, friendship, flirting or simply a good match. You can join conversations, organise outings and join communities around your interests. What matters is saying what you expect, and respecting what others expect.
How are profiles moderated, and how do I report a problem?
Profiles are moderated and can be reported at any time. Afelios also uses several detection and verification systems to limit fake accounts and harmful behaviour. If a profile or a conversation feels wrong, use the report function to bring it to moderation.
Can I find gay outings near me or abroad?
Yes. The Afelios calendar gathers parties, workshops, meet-ups, festivals and LGBTQ+ events in several countries. You can find outings near you or in a city you are planning to visit, and explore the venues the community goes to.
Is there an Afelios app?
Yes. Afelios is available on iPhone and iPad, on Android and directly on the web. You can use the same account on all your devices and find your messages, matches and activity.
How do I make my first connections on Afelios?
Create your profile, show what makes you you, and say what you are after. Then browse the men who catch your eye, start a conversation or join a communities to talk about a shared interest. You can also check the outings to meet people at an outing. Take the first step, at your own pace.
What if it all started today?
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